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It's fascinating to consider how our parents shape who we become. It might seem obvious, but the true depth of their influence often dawns on us much later. By the time we enter adulthood, they've lived a lifetime filled with experiences, both beautiful and heartbreaking. These experiences weave themselves into the fabric of who they are, and inevitably, who we become.
I was fortunate to have a mother who took great care to expose us to a wide range of perspectives. Alongside a strong moral compass, she instilled in us the importance of fairness and treating everyone with respect, "even when it's difficult."
Now, my mother wasn't handed a parenting manual – a running joke in our family! We all chuckle at the idea of anyone being truly prepared for parenthood. Yet, despite that, we embark on this journey, driven by love and the desire to shape the lives of our children.
My mother, despite her own upbringing, did a remarkable job building on what she had. She faced challenges without complaint, as evidenced by her fiercely defending her brother. Her strength of character, her willingness to stand up for what's right, is something I deeply admire.
Perhaps it's a bit much reverence, but I believe it's important to acknowledge the positive influence parents have on our lives. We often shy away from expressing our gratitude in detail, but I'm a firm believer in recognizing strengths in others, especially those we might miss in ourselves. Looking deeper than appearances, a quality I learned from my mother, allows me to appreciate people on a deeper level.
These reflections on my parents stem from a growing awareness of life's preciousness, especially as I care for elderly residents in their 80s. By capturing the lessons my mother has shared, I feel I can honor her and all she's given me. The thought of losing her is daunting, a reality we all must face.
While working at the care facility, I observed a man visiting his mother daily. Initially, seeing him on his phone made me question his dedication. However, I later learned he was a busy manager, yet prioritized his mother despite his demanding schedule. His unwavering care mirrored the values instilled in me by my mother.
This man's dedication wasn't just about love; it felt like a beautiful ripple effect : A mother's lessons on love were reflected back in her son's actions, showcasing the lasting impact parents have on their children. We carry these lessons throughout life, even through the darkest stretches.
Witnessing the dedication of the son at the care facility solidified something for me: the profound impact parents have on their children extends far beyond their own lifetimes. It's a beautiful testament to the enduring power of parental love, a guiding light that transcends even life's darkest moments. More than ever, I feel grateful for the lessons my mother has instilled in me – a treasure I'll carry with me always.
I love you momma. On this mother's day...no... actually on as many days as you can manage to and even on some you can't, remind your momma that you love her. Whether she's living this life or in the next, odds are there are some memories made with you that are worth honoring... maybe, even a lot of them.
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